this is a known issue, its due tot he forums timing out connecting to the database due to the website host not functioning as it should (im process of migrating it elsewhere). c/p your post then refresh page and try again as most the time it should resolve it.
i had already tried that but it didnt work, so i just took some more things out and i think it was having an error because i had too much stuff on it
That could be true, i haven't tested or remember the character limit, maybe post it as a 2nd part on your post, i can try and edit them together later if needed.
I'm going to sit down at some point when I get some headspace just for me to make the main site able to be moved elsewhere. I think that its pretty important that if we are going to host our own site like ours. We might as well not take any half measures.